The story of a women

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I married my husband 12 years back at that time he was earning 35000 Rs per month and I was earning 70000 RS per month it's an arrange marriage, despite of having huge salary difference I married him because my parents forced me, when I got pregnant with my first baby he left job and was searching for job and I was working, but later after 2nd baby I got 100% hike and change the company, after that he completely stop working, now we are having 2 kids, and he is not earning anything , he do have some ancestral property around 2 to 3 acres of paddy fields and 2 undivided house , but income from that is very less( 6000 rs per month- he gave it for lease). It's been 6 years now I am the one who is completely taking care of the family responsibilities. In these years he never buy gifts for me/kids, nor pay any restaurant bills. The good part is he never say no to me , he allows me to go/do what ever I like. More like he is wife and I am husband. I had discussed with him multiple times that I don't want to work, and I want him to work, but he is telling If I quit job, he will take care of the family with that less income , but he will not work. I am fed up of taking responsibility, I want to be like a normal wife. I cried multiple times infront of my parents/ husband but of no use. I thought about divorcing him , but my mind always tells me not to divorce him because Indian society is very bad in judging a divorcee and I am having a beautiful daughter, I am worried of her security too. I feel my Son/daughter need both parents . I don't know whether I will regret If I divorce him? On financial part I do have around 1.5 crore worth property/cash/gold (altogether) and a 25lpa job ( currently working from home) so my kids will not be starved. What should I do?






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